Distinguishing what you can and can’t change is key. Estrangement is most usually accompanied by pushback and fallout. Smear campaigns often seek to injure the estranged party socially. The bottom line is to accept the loss. Source: Photograph by by Katernya Hliznitsova. Copyright free. Unsplash. Alicia’s decision to estrange from her family of origin had…
Everything is going to fall apart. My child is going to get into an accident. I could never accomplish anything even close to great. I don’t have any special skills. I don’t think that my family will be okay. I probably won’t be able to handle it if something does happen to me or someone…
How self-views evolve over the lifespan. Some types of narcissism are more interpersonally harmful. Many people age out of narcissism over their lifetime. In contrast to narcissism, self-esteem often includes prosocial orientation. Most people know a narcissist—at least in the practical, although not necessarily clinical sense. Usually, this is someone who holds themselves in high…
Female narcissists can be particularly subtle in their manipulations. Unlike the stereotypical overtly aggressive narcissist, many women with narcissistic traits use charm, feigned vulnerability, and indirect tactics to maintain control. One hallmark of female narcissism is deniability—no matter what they do, they can make it appear innocent, misinterpreted, or someone else’s fault. Recognizing these behaviors…
Toxic communication behaviors can take a serious toll on your mental health, especially when they occur in personal relationships. Two of the most damaging tactics are gaslighting and stonewalling. Both are frequently used by narcissistic or controlling individuals to manipulate, dominate, or isolate their partners, family members, or colleagues. Recognizing these behaviors early is essential…
Dealing with a narcissistic or toxic family member can be one of the most emotionally draining experiences a person faces. Unlike a coworker or acquaintance, you can’t simply cut ties easily when the individual is your parent, sibling, or close relative. Narcissistic family dynamics are often marked by manipulation, gaslighting, boundary violations, and cycles of…
In today’s fast-paced and hyper-connected world, it’s easy to feel overwhelmed by the constant demands on our time and energy. Many people struggle with saying “no” out of fear of disappointing others, damaging relationships, or appearing selfish. However, consistently ignoring your own needs leads to stress, resentment, and burnout. This is where mindfulness and boundary-setting…
Human relationships thrive on mutual respect, trust, and reciprocity. But sometimes, you may find yourself giving far more than you’re receiving. Whether in friendships, romantic partnerships, or professional connections, being “used” can leave you drained, resentful, and questioning your own worth. Recognizing the signs early can help you set boundaries, protect your emotional health, and…
Have you ever noticed the constant chatter in your head? The small voice that whispers doubts, highlights your mistakes, and tells you that you’re not good enough? That inner critic can be a powerful force against your self-worth. But what if you could change its script? This is where self-respect mantras come in. Mantras are…