One reason narcissistic abuse is pervasive is that a narcissist abuses not only verbally but also nonverbally, using condescending, belittling, humiliating, and dehumanizing body language.
The Dismissive Glance: A narcissist is capable of communicating a great deal of scorn and disrespect with just a flicker of their eye. This glance, often accompanied by a slight smirk or a condescending raise of the eyebrow, is a powerful tool for manipulating emotions. Whether directed at a subordinate in a professional environment or a child in a family setting, this silent rebuke can leave the recipient feeling overwhelmed by inadequacy and humiliation.
2 Clenching Their Jaw, Furrowing Eyebrows,
In times of perceived danger or provocation, narcissists can show intense nonverbal aggression through clenched jaws, furrowed brows, and a hard stare. This aggressive behavior aims to intimidate and dominate the victim, creating a strong sense of fear of retaliation. As a result, the victims feel exposed and powerless in the face of these primal acts of aggression. The narcissist’s overwhelming presence diminishes their sense of control and independence.
3 The Shape Shifter’s Look:
Narcissists are skilled at disguising their true selves, effortlessly switching between different personas to serve their own needs. They skillfully manipulate their facial expressions to display various emotions such as kindness, understanding, or contempt as necessary. This leaves those they deceive feeling confused and unable to make sense of the stark contrast between the charming facade and the malicious intentions hidden underneath. This deliberate deceit is intended to confuse and unsettle the victim, causing them to doubt their own thoughts and feelings.
- The Dismissal A common feature of narcissistic abuse is the constant dismissal of the victim’s feelings and experiences. This is often conveyed through dismissive body language and facial expressions. The narcissist may roll their eyes in irritation, let out a mocking sigh, or display a scornful sneer, all of which serve to belittle and minimize the victim’s concerns. This behavior makes the victims feel ignored and devalued, gradually eroding their self-esteem through the narcissist’s ongoing display of disrespect and disdain..