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Five Ways A Narcissist Gaslights You

1. “I was only joking.” I frequently encounter the phrase, “I was only joking,” used to excuse hurtful or unacceptable behavior. People often say mean things or engage in unkind actions, then brush it off as a joke. This tactic is manipulative and can make others feel like they’re overreacting for expressing their feelings, whether

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Stay Safe and Aware: 12 Tips for Enhancing Situational Awareness

Understanding Situational Awareness Definition of Situational Awareness Situational awareness is the ability to perceive and understand the elements in your environment, comprehend their meaning, and anticipate how they might change. It’s about being fully aware of what’s happening around you, rather than just going through the motions. For example, someone walking in a crowded market

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Combat Narcissists’ and Abusers’ Primary Weapon: Projection by Darlene Lancer LMFT

How to Spot Someone Playing the Victim by Darlene Lancer, JD, LMFT

Not all victims are manipulative. Feeling like a victim has taken on negative connotations, but there are people who “play the victim” in order to manipulate you. This is a favorite defense of narcissists and other personality-disordered people. In some other instances, this behavior is learned as a child as a way to get needs met. I

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10 Dangerous Relationship Red Flags Most Women Ignore

Rerun: Today’s podcast delves into the overlooked warning signs that could indicate potential problems in your romantic connections. From excessive compliments to controlling behavior and everything in between, we’ll guide you through these potential pitfalls that many women tend to ignore. But that’s not all! We also introduce you to the intriguing concept of “beige

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Going No Contact with Narcissists vs Grey Rock: Which Strategy is Right for You?

Show Notes Going No Contact with Narcissists vs Grey Rock: Which Strategy is Right for You? Narcissistic Abuse survivors often hear the advice to go No Contact or use the Grey Rock method. But which one is right for you? In this episode of Fake Love and Flying Monkeys, I break down both strategies, explaining

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