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Err On the Side Of Overprotecting Your Wife .... Her Dr. Samantha Rodman Whiten

Err On the Side Of Overprotecting Your Wife Dr. Samantha Rodman Whiten

As your friendly neighborhood blogapist that tackles many non-PC topics in order to help your marriage, I consider it my business to help you actually understand your partner better, even if what I say isn’t politically correct. This post is no different!  Here, I tackle the idea that men should generally try to protect their wives, because this is […]

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What Happens When Someone Gives a Partner the Silent Treatment By Wendy Patrick JD Ph.D

The Real Problem with Love at First Sight by Wendy L. Patrick, J.D., Ph.D.

KEY POINTS Accurately perceiving the unique characteristics of a potential paramour on a first date can reduce romantic interest. Due to high expectations, deviations from expected first-date behavior could reduce romantic interest. Inaccuracy about the unique characteristics of a date might stimulate interest, sparking potential “pleasures of uncertainty.” Less accurate personality impressions can decrease the

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How to Extend the Newness of a Romantic Relationship By John R. “Jack” Schafer, Ph.D

Limerence is the secret ingredient of romance.   KEY POINTS People experiencing limerence release norepinephrine, dopamine, phenylethylamine, estrogen, and testosterone, creating romantic euphoria. Limerence can last up to three years if nurtured; however, limerence usually only lasts about six months. The shelf-life of limerence can be extended, keeping romantic relationships new and exciting. Source: Wendy

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15 Ways to Hijack Valentine’s Day This Year By Shonda Moralis, Therapist

Overwhelmed and under-appreciated? Time to celebrate yourself. We often set our partners, and ourselves, up for disappointment with unrealistic holiday expectations. There are infinite simple, creative ways we can celebrate ourselves this Valentine’s Day. Hijacking does not require buying into the commercialization but does ask that you take a moment to consider what you are

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Mindfulness is about ‘Remembering’ − A Practice of Coming Back to The Now by Jeremy David Engels

To many, New Year’s Day represents the possibility for beginning anew. Of late, individuals are welcoming the start of another year with a resolution to practice mindfulness, a type of meditation. Many believe mindfulness will help them relax, lessen stress and anxiety, reduce chronic pain and generally improve the quality of their lives – and the research bears this out.

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Why It's So Important That Breakups Include a Digital Break by Wendy L. Patrick J.D. Ph.D

What Motivates Stalkers?: The Purpose Behind the Pursuit by Wendy L. Patrick, J.D., Ph.D.

Research on stalking reveals the fuel that kindles dangerous fire. A critical factor underlying the persistence of stalking behavior is sentimental, ruminative thinking. Stalking behavior is often motivated by the desire to establish or re-establish contact. One of the best practices to end stalking behavior is a solid No. Period. Source: Image by Antonio López

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You are Not Lazy or Undisciplined. You Have Internal Resistance. Dr. Jane Elliot

Why you can’t just do it, and what to do instead You are Not Lazy or Undisciplined. You Have Internal Resistance. Dr. Jane Elliot When I was writing my Ph.D. I didn’t have bad weeks. I had bad months. The kind when each day you wake up thinking, “Today I will actually do the thing”

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Why Is It So Hard to Forgive Yourself? Dr. Peg O'Connor

Why Is It So Hard to Forgive Yourself? Dr. Peg O’Connor

Forgiving yourself is not letting yourself off the hook.   Source: Pixabay Why Is It So Hard to Forgive Yourself? I acknowledge that some people “forgive” themselves too easily and quickly. When they feel the tooth of remorse or the pang of regret, they let themselves off the hook. Denying their responsibility, minimizing their role,

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