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Box Breathing Or Square Breathing

Box breathing, also known as square breathing, is a simple and effective deep breathing technique that can help reduce stress, increase focus, and promote relaxation. It’s often used by athletes, military personnel, and individuals managing stress or anxiety. Here’s how it works: Steps for Box Breathing Inhale: Breathe slowly and deeply through your nose for

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Gaslighting In Movies

Gaslighting is a psychological manipulation tactic where someone makes another person question their reality, often used in thrillers, dramas, and psychological horror films. Here are some of the best movies that explore gaslighting: Classic & Iconic Films Gaslight (1944) – The original gaslighting movie! A husband manipulates his wife into doubting her sanity. Rebecca (1940)

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Shake Up Your Routine Establishing a regular schedule can be beneficial for reducing stress and allowing you to feel more in control. Kerry Kinney, PhD, a psychologist and assistant professor at the Osher Center for Integrative Health at Vanderbilt University Medical Center, shares with SELF, “However, at times, routines can begin to feel repetitive.” Dr.

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5 Practical Ways to De-Escalate Emotional Distress By Wendy Patrick

Diffusing potential danger enhances individual and public safety.   Key points Security, healthcare, or any public employee may encounter persons in distress. Effective interpersonal communication includes listening, validation, and open body language. Online emotional de-escalation involves empathy, authenticity, and verbal accommodation. Many people, within the course of their employment, encounter individuals who potentially pose a

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How to avoid ‘toxic positivity’ and take the less direct route to happiness

The term “toxic positivity” has received a good deal of attention lately. Coming off the back of the “positivity movement” we are beginning to recognise while feeling happy is a good thing, overemphasising the importance of a positive attitude can backfire, ironically leading to more unhappiness. Yes, research shows happier people tend to live longer,

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“Exposing Head Games: Common Manipulation Tactics and How to Outsmart Them”

It’s essential to recognize that emotional manipulators have a talent for distorting reality through lies, fibs, and misstatements. By doing so, they can easily confuse and control those around them. Be aware of their tactics and protect yourself from manipulation. The Home-Court Advantage  in a comfortable environment can significantly influence your sense of empowerment during

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Err On the Side Of Overprotecting Your Wife .... Her Dr. Samantha Rodman Whiten

Err On the Side Of Overprotecting Your Wife Dr. Samantha Rodman Whiten

As your friendly neighborhood blogapist that tackles many non-PC topics in order to help your marriage, I consider it my business to help you actually understand your partner better, even if what I say isn’t politically correct. This post is no different!  Here, I tackle the idea that men should generally try to protect their wives, because this is

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What Happens When Someone Gives a Partner the Silent Treatment By Wendy Patrick JD Ph.D

The Real Problem with Love at First Sight by Wendy L. Patrick, J.D., Ph.D.

KEY POINTS Accurately perceiving the unique characteristics of a potential paramour on a first date can reduce romantic interest. Due to high expectations, deviations from expected first-date behavior could reduce romantic interest. Inaccuracy about the unique characteristics of a date might stimulate interest, sparking potential “pleasures of uncertainty.” Less accurate personality impressions can decrease the

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