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How People Decide to End Contact With a Toxic Relative by Fern Schumer Chapman

How People Decide to End Contact With a Toxic Relative by Fern Schumer Chapman

“I mourn the idea of a close family, but I did this for my own sanity.”   Family members may choose no contact due to abuse, neglect, mental illness, or drug and alcohol use. When choosing no contact, it may be necessary to take certain measures for protection. Relatives may press a child to leave […]

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Stay Safe and Aware: 12 Tips for Enhancing Situational Awareness

Understanding Situational Awareness Definition of Situational Awareness Situational awareness is the ability to perceive and understand the elements in your environment, comprehend their meaning, and anticipate how they might change. It’s about being fully aware of what’s happening around you, rather than just going through the motions. For example, someone walking in a crowded market

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Understanding Self-Hatred: Causes, Effects, and How to Heal

Self-hatred is an excruciating and often silent struggle. It’s more than just low self-esteem—it’s an intense, persistent feeling of dislike or even loathing directed at oneself. People experiencing self-hatred often internalize blame, focus on their perceived flaws, and feel unworthy of love or acceptance. This destructive inner voice can have severe impacts on mental health,

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🌪️ Toxic Positivity vs 🌱 Healthy Support: Why Words Matter More Than You Think

Toxic Positivity is a ploy used by Narcissits, they don’t validate what you say.     We live in a world that often promotes “good vibes only,” encouraging us to always look on the bright side and stay positive. While optimism can be a powerful tool, there’s a fine line between encouragement and emotional invalidation.

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Why do narcissists discard their own children? By Manya Wakefield

Why Do Narcissists Discard Their Children?

Why Do Narcissists Discard their Own Children? It often comes as a shock to people who have children with pathological narcissists how easily some of them abandon their children. Many narcissistic parents have an emotionally immature worldview. They see the world in terms of “good” or “bad”, “black” and “white”, “wrong” or “right.” Unfortunately, this

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What Happens When Someone Gives a Partner the Silent Treatment By Wendy Patrick JD Ph.D

The Unique Trauma of Online Sexual Harassment

Dealing with the dynamics of digital discomfort.   Workplace sexual harassment can follow employees home due to an “always-on” culture and increased ways to contact coworkers after hours. Online sexual harassment can be especially difficult to cope with because it blurs the boundaries between work and life and typically isn’t witnessed by others. Most victims do not report

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Here are Powerful Signs that you May be Involved with an Emotionally Unstable Man:

Here are potent signs that you may be involved with an emotionally unstable man: Constant Comparisons to His Ex. If he frequently emphasizes how much you resemble his ex, it’s a significant warning sign. This habitual comparison indicates he hasn’t truly moved on, which can jeopardize the foundation of your relationship. The American Psychological Association

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Red Flags in Romance: How to Spot Narcissistic Behaviors

Red Flags in Romance: How to Spot Narcissistic Behaviors Early On Understanding Narcissistic Behaviors in Relationships Narcissistic behaviors can profoundly affect interpersonal dynamics. Understanding these traits is crucial for emotional well-being. Many individuals may overlook narcissism, mistaking charm for love. For instance, a friend may find themselves swept off their feet by someone who initially

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Gaslighting In Movies

Gaslighting is a psychological manipulation tactic where someone makes another person question their reality, often used in thrillers, dramas, and psychological horror films. Here are some of the best movies that explore gaslighting: Classic & Iconic Films Gaslight (1944) – The original gaslighting movie! A husband manipulates his wife into doubting her sanity. Rebecca (1940)

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Shake Up Your Routine Establishing a regular schedule can be beneficial for reducing stress and allowing you to feel more in control. Kerry Kinney, PhD, a psychologist and assistant professor at the Osher Center for Integrative Health at Vanderbilt University Medical Center, shares with SELF, “However, at times, routines can begin to feel repetitive.” Dr.

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