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5 Practical Ways to De-Escalate Emotional Distress By Wendy Patrick

Diffusing potential danger enhances individual and public safety.   Key points Security, healthcare, or any public employee may encounter persons in distress. Effective interpersonal communication includes listening, validation, and open body language. Online emotional de-escalation involves empathy, authenticity, and verbal accommodation. Many people, within the course of their employment, encounter individuals who potentially pose a […]

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Going No Contact with Narcissists vs Grey Rock: Which Strategy is Right for You?

Show Notes Going No Contact with Narcissists vs Grey Rock: Which Strategy is Right for You? Narcissistic Abuse survivors often hear the advice to go No Contact or use the Grey Rock method. But which one is right for you? In this episode of Fake Love and Flying Monkeys, I break down both strategies, explaining

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How to avoid ‘toxic positivity’ and take the less direct route to happiness

The term “toxic positivity” has received a good deal of attention lately. Coming off the back of the “positivity movement” we are beginning to recognise while feeling happy is a good thing, overemphasising the importance of a positive attitude can backfire, ironically leading to more unhappiness. Yes, research shows happier people tend to live longer,

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Err On the Side Of Overprotecting Your Wife .... Her Dr. Samantha Rodman Whiten

Err On the Side Of Overprotecting Your Wife Dr. Samantha Rodman Whiten

As your friendly neighborhood blogapist that tackles many non-PC topics in order to help your marriage, I consider it my business to help you actually understand your partner better, even if what I say isn’t politically correct. This post is no different!  Here, I tackle the idea that men should generally try to protect their wives, because this is

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What Happens When Someone Gives a Partner the Silent Treatment By Wendy Patrick JD Ph.D

The Real Problem with Love at First Sight by Wendy L. Patrick, J.D., Ph.D.

KEY POINTS Accurately perceiving the unique characteristics of a potential paramour on a first date can reduce romantic interest. Due to high expectations, deviations from expected first-date behavior could reduce romantic interest. Inaccuracy about the unique characteristics of a date might stimulate interest, sparking potential “pleasures of uncertainty.” Less accurate personality impressions can decrease the

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How to Extend the Newness of a Romantic Relationship By John R. “Jack” Schafer, Ph.D

Limerence is the secret ingredient of romance.   KEY POINTS People experiencing limerence release norepinephrine, dopamine, phenylethylamine, estrogen, and testosterone, creating romantic euphoria. Limerence can last up to three years if nurtured; however, limerence usually only lasts about six months. The shelf-life of limerence can be extended, keeping romantic relationships new and exciting. Source: Wendy

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15 Ways to Hijack Valentine’s Day This Year By Shonda Moralis, Therapist

Overwhelmed and under-appreciated? Time to celebrate yourself. We often set our partners, and ourselves, up for disappointment with unrealistic holiday expectations. There are infinite simple, creative ways we can celebrate ourselves this Valentine’s Day. Hijacking does not require buying into the commercialization but does ask that you take a moment to consider what you are

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Mindfulness is about ‘Remembering’ − A Practice of Coming Back to The Now by Jeremy David Engels

To many, New Year’s Day represents the possibility for beginning anew. Of late, individuals are welcoming the start of another year with a resolution to practice mindfulness, a type of meditation. Many believe mindfulness will help them relax, lessen stress and anxiety, reduce chronic pain and generally improve the quality of their lives – and the research bears this out.

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Why It's So Important That Breakups Include a Digital Break by Wendy L. Patrick J.D. Ph.D

What Motivates Stalkers?: The Purpose Behind the Pursuit by Wendy L. Patrick, J.D., Ph.D.

Research on stalking reveals the fuel that kindles dangerous fire. A critical factor underlying the persistence of stalking behavior is sentimental, ruminative thinking. Stalking behavior is often motivated by the desire to establish or re-establish contact. One of the best practices to end stalking behavior is a solid No. Period. Source: Image by Antonio López

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