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3 Ways Narcissism Fuels Jealousy in Relationships By Dr. Erin Leonard

3 Ways Narcissism Fuels Jealousy in Relationships

Projection, passive-aggressive punishment, and more. Jealousy is a normal and human emotion. How a person acts on it, though, may lead to problems. A person who recognizes and seeks to understand jealousy may articulate it and access reassurance constructively. Defending against the unpleasant emotion by projecting, acting out vindictively, or controlling a partner might be

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Combat Narcissists’ and Abusers’ Primary Weapon: Projection by Darlene Lancer LMFT

How to Spot Someone Playing the Victim by Darlene Lancer, JD, LMFT

Not all victims are manipulative. Feeling like a victim has taken on negative connotations, but there are people who “play the victim” in order to manipulate you. This is a favorite defense of narcissists and other personality-disordered people. In some other instances, this behavior is learned as a child as a way to get needs met. I

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Signs You Might Be Dealing with A Female Narcissist By Babita Spinelli LP

Signs You Might Be Dealing with A Female Narcissist By Babita Spinelli LP

Do a quick internet search for narcissism and you’re likely to find thousands of articles and accounts of dealing with a narcissist and they’re almost always male. It would be easy to assume that narcissism is a common, uniquely male trait. However, like other mental health issues, narcissism is not unique to one gender. And,

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The Covert Narcissists Hooks: Flattery, Fantasy and Poor Me Syndrome. By Zoe Livesley

The Covert Narcissists Hooks: Flattery, Fantasy and Poor Me Syndrome. By Zoe Livesley

The Covert Narcissists Hooks: Flattery, Fantasy and Poor Me Syndrome The covert narcissist’s hooks won’t catch everyone, but they’re likely to entrap co-dependent and empathic personality types almost 100% of the time.  The covert narcissist differs in some ways from their louder counterpart – the covert narcissist, who is easier to spot with their strong

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Why It's So Important That Breakups Include a Digital Break by Wendy L. Patrick J.D. Ph.D

Reading Red Flags of Revenge: Perception as Prevention by

Knowing how avengers are provoked can prevent aggression Posted January 26, 2025 |  Reviewed by Gary Drevitc Key points Many people feel slighted, but avengers act on vengeful feelings; nonavengers don’t. Revenge is impacted by the offense, relationship between the parties, and context. Social exclusion often prompts revenge, highlighting its social nature. Source: Image by Photolesh from Pixabay

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Dr. Gary Lewandowski

Three Simple Ways to Improve Any Relationship By Gary W. Lewandowski Jr. Ph.D.

. Demand less.   Key points Everyone’s relationship can use a boost. Knowing strategies to fix problems or prevent them is important. You can “do more” by working on the relationship or “demand less” by focusing on managing expectations. You can better appreciate what you have by focusing on the positives and what works well.

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