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3 Ways Narcissism Fuels Jealousy in Relationships By Dr. Erin Leonard

3 Ways Narcissism Fuels Jealousy in Relationships

Projection, passive-aggressive punishment, and more. Jealousy is a normal and human emotion. How a person acts on it, though, may lead to problems. A person who recognizes and seeks to understand jealousy may articulate it and access reassurance constructively. Defending against the unpleasant emotion by projecting, acting out vindictively, or controlling a partner might be […]

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Five Ways A Narcissist Gaslights You

1. “I was only joking.” I frequently encounter the phrase, “I was only joking,” used to excuse hurtful or unacceptable behavior. People often say mean things or engage in unkind actions, then brush it off as a joke. This tactic is manipulative and can make others feel like they’re overreacting for expressing their feelings, whether

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Stay Safe and Aware: 12 Tips for Enhancing Situational Awareness

Understanding Situational Awareness Definition of Situational Awareness Situational awareness is the ability to perceive and understand the elements in your environment, comprehend their meaning, and anticipate how they might change. It’s about being fully aware of what’s happening around you, rather than just going through the motions. For example, someone walking in a crowded market

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The Covert Narcissists Hooks: Flattery, Fantasy and Poor Me Syndrome. By Zoe Livesley

The Covert Narcissists Hooks: Flattery, Fantasy and Poor Me Syndrome. By Zoe Livesley

The Covert Narcissists Hooks: Flattery, Fantasy and Poor Me Syndrome The covert narcissist’s hooks won’t catch everyone, but they’re likely to entrap co-dependent and empathic personality types almost 100% of the time.  The covert narcissist differs in some ways from their louder counterpart – the covert narcissist, who is easier to spot with their strong

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Building Self-Esteem: Your Guide to a Better, Happier You

How to Build Self-Esteem: A Comprehensive Guide Building self-esteem is a journey that requires commitment and practice. In this guide, I will walk you through practical steps and strategies to help you develop a healthier self-image and boost your confidence.   Understanding Self-Esteem Before diving into the steps, it’s essential to understand what self-esteem is.

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Dr. Gary Lewandowski

Three Simple Ways to Improve Any Relationship By Gary W. Lewandowski Jr. Ph.D.

. Demand less.   Key points Everyone’s relationship can use a boost. Knowing strategies to fix problems or prevent them is important. You can “do more” by working on the relationship or “demand less” by focusing on managing expectations. You can better appreciate what you have by focusing on the positives and what works well.

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Why Do Some Men Refer to Women with Offensive Terms?​

Warning – offensive words appear in this document. The Men Who Call Women “W*)*(*** Words hold more power than we often realize. While it may seem harmless to use terms like “slut,” “bitch,” or “whore,” such disrespectful language can significantly impact how women perceive themselves and can lead to serious consequences. Men, in particular, should

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Why do narcissists discard their own children? By Manya Wakefield

Why Do Narcissists Discard Their Children?

Why Do Narcissists Discard their Own Children? It often comes as a shock to people who have children with pathological narcissists how easily some of them abandon their children. Many narcissistic parents have an emotionally immature worldview. They see the world in terms of “good” or “bad”, “black” and “white”, “wrong” or “right.” Unfortunately, this

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Dr Karen Doll

How Jealousy Can Ruin Your Relationship By Karen Doll, Psy.D., L.P

Jealousy is an emotion that very commonly creates discord and strife in romantic relationships. While the impact this emotion has on a relationship can vary, it’s usually damaging and generally leads to some level of disconnection. Jealousy can be insidious, as it can start off with one partner feeling mildly concerned over a threat to their

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