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Head Games Manipulation Tactics

It’s essential to recognize that emotional manipulators have a talent for distorting reality through lies, fibs, and misstatements. By doing so, they can easily confuse and control those around them. Be aware of their tactics and protect yourself from manipulation. The Home-court Advantage  This can be a significant factor in feeling empowered during social interactions. […]

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How to Extend the Newness of a Romantic Relationship By John R. “Jack” Schafer, Ph.D

Limerence is the secret ingredient of romance.   KEY POINTS People experiencing limerence release norepinephrine, dopamine, phenylethylamine, estrogen, and testosterone, creating romantic euphoria. Limerence can last up to three years if nurtured; however, limerence usually only lasts about six months. The shelf-life of limerence can be extended, keeping romantic relationships new and exciting. Source: Wendy

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You are Not Lazy or Undisciplined. You Have Internal Resistance. Dr. Jane Elliot

Why you can’t just do it, and what to do instead You are Not Lazy or Undisciplined. You Have Internal Resistance. Dr. Jane Elliot When I was writing my Ph.D. I didn’t have bad weeks. I had bad months. The kind when each day you wake up thinking, “Today I will actually do the thing”

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Understanding Love Bombing: Signs and Manipulative Tactics

Understanding Love Bombing: Signs and Manipulative Tactics Love bombing is a manipulative tactic often employed in the early stages of a relationship. An overwhelming display of affection, attention, and admiration characterizes it. While this behavior may feel incredibly flattering and exciting at first, it is typically a red flag indicating potential emotional abuse or manipulation.

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 Understanding Bad Behavior During Breakups

 Understanding Bad Behavior During Breakups Breaking up can be difficult, and sometimes, emotions can lead people to exhibit bad behavior. If you’re wondering about this complex situation, here’s a handy guide to help you understand some common behaviors and how to approach them. 1. Ghosting What It Is: Disappearing without any explanation. Why People Do

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Why Is It So Hard to Forgive Yourself? Dr. Peg O'Connor

Why Is It So Hard to Forgive Yourself? Dr. Peg O’Connor

Forgiving yourself is not letting yourself off the hook.   Source: Pixabay Why Is It So Hard to Forgive Yourself? I acknowledge that some people “forgive” themselves too easily and quickly. When they feel the tooth of remorse or the pang of regret, they let themselves off the hook. Denying their responsibility, minimizing their role,

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Feel Alive and Well

What does it truly mean to feel alive and well? Wellness transcends the mere absence of illness or disease. It represents a comprehensive and ongoing journey toward realizing one’s utmost potential in every facet of life. Wellness integrates physical, mental, emotional, spiritual, social, occupational, environmental, and financial aspects. By nurturing our wellness, we can significantly improve our quality

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Four Ways to Calm Your Mind in Stressful Times by Dr. Emma SEPPÄLÄ

Four Ways to Calm Your Mind in Stressful Times by Dr. Emma SEPPÄLÄ

Four Ways to Calm Your Mind in Stressful Times Life throws chaos at us on a regular basis—whether it’s our finances, our relationships, or our health. In the work world, around 50 percent of people are burned out in industries like health care, banking, and nonprofits, and employers spend $300 billion per year on workplace-related

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